I was having a
conversation yesterday about something and this blog post comes out of that. In
previous generations, Christians and vocational ministers often had so-called
“hedge of protection” rules, such as: never counsel a member of the opposite
sex alone, always call when you are travelling away from family, limit or get
rid of TV, etc. These are also placed alongside accountability rules, such as
internet software (at least in today’s society), weekly meetings, phone calls,
and small groups. These rules are in place, ostensibly, to keep people safe,
their hearts pure, and their focus on the Lord.
On the other hand,
lately I’ve seen a lot of comments from contemporary Christians that such rules
are not desirable. Even worse than
this, they are indicative of either an immature Christian or else an evil
and/or impure heart. So which side is right? How can we adjudicate this
rationally and spiritually?
It seems to me, on the
one hand, that the accountability side is right. We are made for community,
both because we image-bear God (cf. Gen. 1:27) and because we are made to be in
fellowship with each other, bear one another’s burdens, and so on (see
literally any and all of Paul’s letters). Additionally, Jesus himself advocated
for taking radical steps, albeit while speaking hyperbolically, to avoid sin
(see Matthew 5:27-30). Paul urged us to “flee” youthful lusts.[1]
On the other hand,
there is something right about the naysayers. There is a legitimate point to be
made about legalism and how it doesn’t change your heart. If all you do is
institute a bunch of rules, you may simply be revealing how sinful your heart
really is, and these rules aren’t going to change that—they simply remove some
particular opportunities to commit that sin.
Here, I think, is where
we can find a rapprochement. It’s very true that if a man struggles with
watching inappropriate things on TV, removing a TV doesn’t cleanse his heart or
renew his mind. In fact, all it does is simply remove one way he might sin.
He’s still living, and breathing, and thinking, and thus his problem is not
solved. Thus, we can see if one is trying to cleanse his heart and renew his
mind by simply hedge-of-protection rules or accountability, this will not work.
However, if a man
struggles with inappropriate thoughts, and is in the Bible and praying, he may
add accountability, and radical measures, and this will be fine, and even good
for him! Why? Because it’s motivated by a desire for a change of heart, and as
we are being renewed, we remove temptation from our lives where necessary. The
arrow runs in the other direction. You’re not holy because you remove
temptation; you are being made holy, and you recognize for your life you need
to remove this temptation for a time, or even permanently. The danger is in
thinking it somehow makes you spiritual, or in insisting others do it as well,
or else be in sin.
This can be applied to
other sins as well (indeed, all of them!). Gluttony—perhaps remove particular foods.
Body image issues—perhaps remove particular magazines or TV programs. Gossip—perhaps
remove yourself from particular friends for a while. The list can go on and on.
None of these help you become spiritual. But what they do accomplish is to help
someone who is becoming spiritual weather temptation in different areas.
Finally, one last note:
we all struggle with something sinful. That’s because we all have a sin
problem. So if you think, “If that person struggles, then he is really sinful,” just know you’re right.
I am really sinful. And so are you.
So pray for each other, and show each other grace. As (I believe) Mike Grover once suggested, too often we claim we have avoided legalism, but in reality all we have done is switched sides!
[1] Granted, this is plausibly in
juxtaposition with “following” righteousness, faith, charity, and peace in the
same verse, and so may be more metaphorical. Nonetheless, I suspect Paul may
have had room for a literal application (Joseph, anyone?).
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